Work-Life Balance is a myth.

Boom. I said it. I’m Arivee Vargas. I help women that have been in the corporate and legal game for a hot-minute get clear on who they are and what’s most important to them, so that they can live life on their terms—with more clarity, fulfillment, purpose and alignment. This is what becoming the leader in your own life requires.

I’ve been there, running myself into the ground in pursuit of this unattainable idea of the “perfect balance” that’s sold to women - whether they have kids or not. The truth is, things only changed for me when I cut through the BS, rid myself of the external expectations and opinions, and went inward to focus on creating my unique definition of success and work-life harmony - arranging the different parts of my life in a way that was aligned with my truth and how I really wanted to live and work.

We can have what is most important to us in this season of our lives, if we’re willing to think differently and do things differently.

That means transforming negative self-talk, challenging our thought patterns, habits, and beliefs that are holding us back, and taking actions that align with who we say we want to be and what we most want.